Someone once said,
“If you don’t know who you are, the world will tell you.”Â
For most of my life, that was me.
Real Talk from CorlissÂ
I "fell" into my life without really knowing it. For my first forty years, I did all the things I thought I needed to do to have a successful life.
I checked all the boxes. Get married. Have a family. Build a business. Get the next promotion. Make more money. Win the award. Build your dream home. Take a trip etc. etc.
I was always chasing the next thing and although I did achieve many things and there were moments of real happiness, it never lasted long. I now know it’s because true happiness and success begins on the inside, not the outside. When I look back it's clear why I felt so lost—and without purpose.
At 40, life forced me to pause. A divorce, financial struggles, and a failing business left me asking, “Now what?” and “Is there something more?” I was a single mom of three, moving from my dream home to a tiny apartment, stripped of the titles and identity I once clung to.
In moments like these, it’s easy to feel like a victim. But deep down, I knew that blaming wouldn’t change my life—only I could. As a role model for my kids, I knew I needed to take charge of my life. So, I began a journey of self-discovery, asking tough questions, owning my choices, and learning to build success from the inside out.Â
I am grateful for the journey that led me here because I know I could not be who I am now—doing what I am doing—if I hadn't had those experiences.Â
It all had a purpose.Â
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What if it's all happening for you?
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Embracing My Power
Through personal development, I uncovered who I truly was and why my life had unfolded as it did. I realized I had spent years seeking validation, believing I wasn’t "enough." I learned that I had the power to heal, to choose, and to redefine my future.
Midlife brings experience and wisdom, but it also comes with urgency. Time is passing, and if you don’t take charge, you risk looking back with regret. I chose differently—and I hope you will too.Â
What I know now:
Life is full of highs and lows. We all face challenges, inner doubts, and unseen struggles. But when we use our experiences, skills, and lessons to help others, we create meaning and purpose. When you own who you are and become who you want to be— and stay aligned with what matters to you — purpose is discovered.
Sometimes a pause is needed.Â
I founded Corliss Co. with a mission to make a real difference—one person at a time. My work as a speaker, coach, author, podcaster, and event host is how I embrace my purpose and help others do the same.
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The Big Realizations That Shifted My Life:
- You get to decide who you are.
- Owning your truth (and story) is a power move.
- Every one of us has the power to change our story.
- You never have to start over or start from scratch.
- Every high and low in life prepares you for what comes next, and when you use those experiences for the greater good — purpose is found.
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It's not about becoming someone completely different— it's about building on who you already are.
You can LEAD your life, or life will LEAD you — you do have a choice.
Own your truth. Embrace your power. Fulfill your purpose.
One choice. One action. One moment.
That’s all it takes to shift your life. You don’t have to have it all figured out—just take that one step. Because one leads to the next, and before you know it, you’ve changed everything.
By the way... YOU have that power.
Life Comes Full CircleÂ
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We may not always understand how things unfold, but when we look back, we see the pieces fit together.
Entrepreneurship has been my greatest teacher, showing me the power of self-belief, vision, and resilience. Every new level of success demands a new version of you. My personal journey has strengthened my confidence, deepened my self-worth, and helped me discover my passions. I’ve learned that fulfillment comes from continual growth and having the courage to follow your heart.
Now, I use what I’ve learned to help you LEAD your life.
Proof It’s Not Too Late:
41 – Bought my own home
45 – Changed careers
46 – Launched my company
47 – Published my first best-selling book
49 – Became a podcast host
53 – Launched LEAD Conference Canada
53 – Developed the Called to LEAD certification program
54 – Became a professional speaker
If my story resonates with you, let’s connect. Don’t wait for the perfect time. Don’t wait until you feel ready.
You have one life, and it’s up to you to LEAD it.
Take action now—your future self will thank you.
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With love & gratitude,
Corliss
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I am a small-town Saskatchewan farm girl turned International Speaker, Best-selling Author, Personal Development Coach, Podcast Host & CEO.Â
I am here to help you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be.
